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Communication in Marriage: A Way to Intimacy

May 3, 2012 · Leave a Comment

Conversations with your spouse can easily go down a slippery slope. You can resolve a communication in marriage if you’re willing to dig underground three stories. To determine what is at the heart of any upsetting interchange, you can repeat a conversation on three different levels. Content triggers something you’re anxious about. Read about how intimacy happened only after my husband and I took the risk of talking about our fears.

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How To Understand Communication in Marriage Through a Different Lens

May 2, 2012 · Leave a Comment

Learning new information about what relationships are and are not will help you express yourself in ways you never thought possible. Revolutionizing your understanding about topics, such as intimacy, commitment, love, and sex is the only way to change your communication in marriage about your needs, wants, desires, and dreams.